Rings

Last Monday morning I gave the spouse my wedding set back. He's confused he says. I told him he needed to decide if he thought I needed them or not. He says I'm still his wife but has made no effort to give them back. He did say the other night that they were a gift and mine either way. Was that supposed to be a reassurance?
When I gave the rings to him I moved the ring from my right hand to my left. It felt wrong not having something there. My hand felt naked and my heart felt broken. A week later I moved that ring back to the other hand. My left hand is as empty as my heart is right now. Separation continues to be his answer until I gave a list of questions needing discussed and answered before hand. A list of rules to set up. He says never mind we will just keep things the way they are. I objected and forced the issue and conversation last night. It was left at he needs time to think about things. U need a break from life. I need some reassurance. I need some answers. I need some love. I need someone who gives a fuck.
If the goal is to push me away it's working. Each day I begin to feel i am being pushed farther and farther away. I'm pulling away slowly. I'm tired of hurting and this is prolonging the pain. I'm tired of hoping and being told to wait. I'm tired of trying and being told it's not clear enough if the try will stay. I'm tired of being alone in a full house.